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States where people get married the youngest

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States where people get married the youngest

Ah, to be young and in love–there is nothing quite like it.  Throughout the ages, finding a partner and settling down has been one of life’s greatest rites of passage, as young adults routinely listed finding a husband or wife as a top reason for attending college. But the times they are a-changin', and marriage rates have been in decline for decades, currently stagnating around 7% annually–their lowest in recorded history.

Still, though the national average may be affected by changing attitudes towards marriage across the country, looking at more granular state-by-state data shows how different American life can be from region to region. Indeed, the average age for marriage in some states is a full four years younger than others, accounting for over a 20% difference in median age of marriage.

To help depict trends across the country, Stacker analyzed census data from the 2016 American Community Survey on median age at first marriage. The census surveyed first marriage ages for both males and females and reported the median age for both genders in each state (including Washington D.C. and Puerto Rico), and the average of these was used to generate the overall value for ranking each state. Read on to see where your state stacks up.

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#52. Washington D.C.

Average median age at first marriage: 30.3 (6.1% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.3 (2.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 30.3 (9.8% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 0 years

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#51. Rhode Island

Average median age at first marriage: 30.2 (5.8% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.7 (4.1% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29.6 (7.2% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.1 years

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#50. New York

Average median age at first marriage: 30.2 (5.8% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.8 (4.4% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29.5 (6.9% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.3 years

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Massachusetts Office of Travel & Tourism // Flickr

#49. Massachusetts

Average median age at first marriage: 30.2 (5.8% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.8 (4.4% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29.6 (7.2% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.2 years

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Meg Hawes // Wikicommons

#48. Puerto Rico

Average median age at first marriage: 30 (5.1% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.8 (4.4% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29.2 (5.8% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Sgt. R.K. Blue // Wikicommons

#47. Connecticut

Average median age at first marriage: 29.9 (4.7% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.7 (4.1% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29.1 (5.4% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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JimMillerJr // Wikicommons

#46. New Jersey

Average median age at first marriage: 29.8 (4.4% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.6 (3.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 29 (5.1% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Mwparenteau // Wikicommons

#45. Vermont

Average median age at first marriage: 29.5 (3.3% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.6 (3.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.3 (2.5% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.3 years

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Maryland GovPics // Wikicommons

#44. Maryland

Average median age at first marriage: 29.4 (3% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.2 (2.4% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.6 (3.6% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Jorge Royan // Wikicommons

#43. Florida

Average median age at first marriage: 29.3 (2.6% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.3 (2.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.3 (2.5% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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Smallbones // Wikicommons

#42. Delaware

Average median age at first marriage: 29.3 (2.6% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.2 (2.4% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.4 (2.9% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Steven Pavlov // Wikicommons

#41. California

Average median age at first marriage: 29.3 (2.6% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.3 (2.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.3 (2.5% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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Justine Adams Lee // Wikicommons

#40. Pennsylvania

Average median age at first marriage: 29.2 (2.3% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30 (1.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.4 (2.9% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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#39. Illinois

Average median age at first marriage: 29.2 (2.3% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30 (1.7% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 28.4 (2.9% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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John Phelan // Wikicommons

#38. New Hampshire

Average median age at first marriage: 29 (1.6% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 30.1 (2% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.9 (1.1% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.2 years

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Nheyob // Wikicommons

#37. Michigan

Average median age at first marriage: 28.8 (0.9% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.8 (1% above national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.7 (0.4% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.1 years

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M.O. Stevens // Wikicommons

#36. Oregon

Average median age at first marriage: 28.6 (0.2% above national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.5 (matches national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.6 (matches national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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Chanilim714 // Wikicommons

#35. South Carolina

Average median age at first marriage: 28.5 (0.2% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.2 (1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.7 (0.4% above national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.5 years

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Yinan Chen // Wikicommons

#34. Wisconsin

Average median age at first marriage: 28.4 (0.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.3 (0.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.4 (0.7% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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Mike Russell // Wikicommons

#33. Ohio

Average median age at first marriage: 28.4 (0.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.3 (0.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.4 (0.7% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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Pghjared // Wikimedia Commons

#32. Louisiana

Average median age at first marriage: 28.4 (0.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.3 (0.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.5 (0.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Jerry Ferguson // Flickr

#31. Arizona

Average median age at first marriage: 28.4 (0.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.4 (0.3% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.4 (0.7% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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Ryan Glanzer // Flickr

#30. Minnesota

Average median age at first marriage: 28.3 (0.9% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.3 (0.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.2 (1.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.1 years

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TrinaDPhoto // Wikicommons

#29. Maine

Average median age at first marriage: 28.3 (0.9% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.4 (0.3% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.1 (1.8% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.3 years

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Smash the Iron Cage // Wikicommons

#28. Virginia

Average median age at first marriage: 28.2 (1.2% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.2 (1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.2 (1.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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Antoine Taveneaux // Wikicommons

#27. Nevada

Average median age at first marriage: 28.2 (1.2% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29.2 (1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.2 (1.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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Katina Rogers // Flickr

#26. Hawaii

Average median age at first marriage: 28.1 (1.6% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.6 (3.1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.5 (0.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.1 years

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Akhenaton06 // Wikicommons

#25. Georgia

Average median age at first marriage: 28.1 (1.6% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29 (1.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.2 (1.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Jcbridge (Janet Cooper-Bridge) // Wikicommons

#24. North Carolina

Average median age at first marriage: 28 (1.9% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.8 (2.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.1 (1.8% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.7 years

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Jamies // Wikicommons

#23. Washington

Average median age at first marriage: 27.9 (2.3% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29 (1.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.8 (2.9% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.2 years

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J. Pock // Wikicommons

#22. Colorado

Average median age at first marriage: 27.9 (2.3% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.9 (2% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.9 (2.5% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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M.Bucka // Wikicommons

#21. New Mexico

Average median age at first marriage: 27.8 (2.6% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.4 (3.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 27.2 (1.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.2 years

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GlacierNPS // Flickr

#20. Montana

Average median age at first marriage: 27.5 (3.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.6 (3.1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.4 (4.3% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.2 years

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Marcus Qwertyus // Wikicommons

#19. Missouri

Average median age at first marriage: 27.5 (3.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.2 (4.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.8 (2.9% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.4 years

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#18. Mississippi

Average median age at first marriage: 27.5 (3.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.4 (3.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.6 (3.6% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Jmenard48 // Wikicommons

#17. Indiana

Average median age at first marriage: 27.5 (3.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.4 (3.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.6 (3.6% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Wonderlane // Flickr

#16. Alaska

Average median age at first marriage: 27.5 (3.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 29 (1.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26 (5.8% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 3 years

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Patrick Feller // Flickr

#15. Texas

Average median age at first marriage: 27.4 (4.% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.3 (4.1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.5 (4.% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Skye Marthaler // Wikicommons

#14. Tennessee

Average median age at first marriage: 27.4 (4.% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.2 (4.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.5 (4.% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.7 years

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#13. West Virginia

Average median age at first marriage: 27.2 (4.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.3 (4.1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.1 (5.4% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2.2 years

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Billwhittaker // Wikicommons

#12. Iowa

Average median age at first marriage: 27.2 (4.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28.1 (4.7% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.2 (5.1% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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#11. Nebraska

Average median age at first marriage: 27.1 (5.1% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 28 (5.1% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.2 (5.1% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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#10. Alabama

Average median age at first marriage: 27.1 (5.1% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.9 (5.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 26.3 (4.7% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Nheyob // Wikicommons

#9. Kentucky

Average median age at first marriage: 26.9 (5.8% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.8 (5.8% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.9 (6.2% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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Bobak Ha'Eri // Wikicommons

#8. North Dakota

Average median age at first marriage: 26.8 (6.1% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.6 (6.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.9 (6.2% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.7 years

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Smallbones // Wikicommons

#7. Wyoming

Average median age at first marriage: 26.7 (6.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.6 (6.4% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.7 (6.9% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.9 years

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Seabear70 // Wikicommons

#6. South Dakota

Average median age at first marriage: 26.7 (6.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.5 (6.8% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.9 (6.2% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Thomas & Dianne Jones // Wikicommons

#5. Kansas

Average median age at first marriage: 26.7 (6.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.5 (6.8% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.9 (6.2% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.6 years

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Serge Melki // Flickr

#4. Oklahoma

Average median age at first marriage: 26.4 (7.5% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.2 (7.8% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.5 (7.6% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.7 years

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Calvin Beale // Wikicommons

#3. Arkansas

Average median age at first marriage: 26.3 (7.9% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 27.2 (7.8% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 25.4 (8.% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Robbymilo // Wikicommons

#2. Idaho

Average median age at first marriage: 25.8 (9.6% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 26.7 (9.5% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 24.9 (9.8% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 1.8 years

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Sean Breazeal // Wikicommons

#1. Utah

Average median age at first marriage: 25.2 (11.7% below national median)

Male median age at first marriage: 26.2 (11.2% below national median)

Female median age at first marriage: 24.2 (12.3% below national median)

Difference between male and female medians: 2 years

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